Saturday, March 12, 2011

First Signs Of Cheating

Marriages are a unity of two separate individuals that once vowed to do with no other until death do us part. Only problem is that the death in 'death do us part' seems to refer more to the death of a persons moral fibers more so than the death of the individual themselves.

The death of those moral fibers is first present when a person (husband or wife) takes it unto themselves to hit the haystack with another other than the person they vowed to be faithful to when they exchanged their wedding vows.

In fact the first signs of cheating are usually present well before the person decides to jump on the neighbors spouse or the office boy or girl. The first signs are usually overlooked, though, and it is usually not until the haystack has been somewhat leveled that any husband or wife realizes that the first signs of cheating were clearly visible all along.

Regardless of the fact that the signs of cheating are visible and can be seen by some, but not others, cheating in all of it's forms - not just physical - is a surefire way to push a marriage to it's breaking point and if this happens, then there is the need for some serious thinking to be done about how to save a broken marriage, or even should my broken marriage even be saved?

Whatever the choice, many will tell you that rebuilding their marriage was worth it and that their marriage is now better than ever before as a result.

Perform your own due diligence and think about what you want from your marriage in the future and then do whatever is necessary to achieve it.

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